Hi Love, I'm amanda!
Certified Relationship Coach for High-Achieving Women Who Are Done Doing Everything Alone
You ever feel like you’re doing everything…
and somehow it’s still not enough?
You’re keeping the house running.
Thinking about everything.
Trying to be a “good wife.”
And still… you feel alone in your own relationship.
I know that feeling—because I lived it.
I thought this was just how marriage worked.
I thought being a good wife meant:
taking care of him
staying quiet
not complaining
and definitely not asking for too much
I thought his job was to provide…
and mine was to handle everything else.
The house.
The mental load.
The relationship.
All of it.
And when something felt off?
I assumed it was me.
Seven years in... it hit me.
I had this belief that if we could just make it to year seven, we’d be okay.
But that day came and went…
and I was still the one carrying everything.
That’s when it hit me:
👉 this isn’t just how marriage is
👉 this is a pattern
And it wasn’t going to change…
unless I did.
So I started small.
I stopped doing things for him that he could do himself.
I spoke up. More passive-aggressive at first, but I did it.
I stopped trying to keep the peace at my own expense.
And slowly…
everything started to shift.
Not because I said things perfectly.
But because I stopped showing up the same way.
Now this is the work I do.
I help women stop over-functioning in their marriage
and create a relationship where they’re not doing it all alone.
Not by fixing their partner.
But by changing the pattern
that’s been keeping them stuck.
You don't need to keep doing it this way.
You don’t need to carry everything
just to keep the peace.
👉 This is where that starts.
Never without
A smoothie in my hand
favorite TRAVEL memory
Surfing with my kids
probably listening to
A business podcast
Favorite drink
Matcha or chai latte!
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Girl, grab that Matcha Latte and LFG! I'm not here just to sprinkle inspiration on like confetti....As a mom of four, I've walked your path + learned how to run my life and I'm here to teach you to do the same.
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